Your wedding day is filled with beautiful moments, but one of the most emotional and intimate experiences is had even BEFORE the wedding. This is called a bridal or first-look photo session. Whether you’re planning a private moment with your soon-to-be spouse or just capturing the full bridal getup, understanding what to expect can help you prepare for this special time.
In this guide, I’ll walk you through what happens during a bridal or first-look photo session, why it’s essential, and how to get the best out of your photos.
The Importance of a Bridal/First-Look Session
A bridal photo session typically takes place before the ceremony or reception. Usually WEEKS before! This is because many brides and grooms want printed photos of their bridals AT the wedding.
A bridal photo session is a chance for the bride and groom to be photographed in their wedding attire without the pressure of the ceremony or reception looming. The first-look photo session, however, is a more intimate moment between the couple before the big “I do.”
Why is it important?
- Captured Emotions: The first look reveals pure, raw emotions. The look on your partner’s face when they see you for the first time in your wedding attire is priceless.
- Less Stress: By having a dedicated photo session before the ceremony, you can reduce the stress of formal portraits later in the day.
- More Time for Guests: A pre-wedding photo session gives you more time to mingle with guests during the actual wedding day, without sacrificing photos.


Choosing the Right Location for Your Session
Your bridal/first-look session can happen in various locations, depending on the aesthetic you’re going for and the vibe of your wedding. Consider this:
- Outdoor Locations: Gardens, parks, beaches, or forested areas provide natural beauty for a serene or romantic backdrop. The grander the location, the grander YOU will look!
- Indoor Spaces: Stunning hotels, grand ballrooms, or even your venue’s bridal suite are PERFECT for an elegant indoor look.
- Private Settings: A secluded area for your first look, away from the guests, allows for a more intimate and emotional moment. This is especially ideal for couples who want to share a private exchange of words or emotions.



The Timing of the Session
Timing is critical to getting the most out of your bridal/first-look session. The best time is usually 3+ weeks before the wedding, giving you the opportunity to enjoy the moment AND the photos before all the craziness of a wedding day starts.
- Golden Hour: For breathtaking, soft, and romantic photos, consider scheduling your session during the golden hour — the hour just before sunset when the light is warm and flattering.
- Duration: Expect the session to last anywhere from 60 to 90 minutes. This gives plenty of time for the bride to get ready, and for me to set it all up and get both partners in position. The first-look “scene” usually takes about 5-10 minutes. I make sure to give the bride and groom their special moments together without ANY direction or prompts. This allows me. to get the perfect candid shots without being in the way of their special time!

What to Wear
The bridal or first-look photo session is your chance to show off your wedding attire! Here are some tips:
- Bridal Gown: Make sure you’re COMFORTABLE in your wedding dress. There is nothing worse than stiff photos, and those usually come from STIFF clothes! It’s common for brides to have a little help from bridesmaids , mothers, or a stylist to make sure the gown fits just right for the session.
- Groom’s Attire: The groom’s outfit should be sharp, and well-coordinated with the bride’s style. Pay attention to details such as cufflinks, boutonniere, tie, and shoes.
- Extras: Brides often add personal touches like a veil or jewelry for added flair, while the groom may have a pocket square or tie clip to elevate his look. These small touches add personality to your photos!




Posing and Getting Comfortable in Front of the Camera
During the session, your photographer will guide you through various poses and moments to capture. Expect a combination of:
- Candid Moments: The best photos often happen naturally — the spontaneous, unposed shots of the couple looking at each other, laughing, or exchanging sweet words.
- Formal Poses: Some structured poses, such as holding hands, gazing at one another, or a kiss, will help create timeless, classic images.
- Direction: A skilled photographer will direct you in a way that feels comfortable. Don’t worry if you’re not used to being in front of the camera—professionals know how to make you feel at ease and bring out your best side!



The Emotional Impact of the First-Look Session
A first-look session is more than just a photo opportunity; it’s an emotional experience. Many couples choose to see each other before the ceremony because it provides a private moment to share excitement, nerves, and anticipation.
Expect raw emotions, from tears of joy to smiles that say a thousand words. Whether you choose to exchange vows or just spend a few quiet moments together, the first look is one of the most treasured moments of the day. Your photographer will be there to capture it all.

Tips for a Successful Bridal/First-Look Photo Session
- Relax and Be Present: Trust your photographer and enjoy the moment. Don’t worry about making everything perfect—let the day unfold naturally.
- Choose Meaningful Locations: Consider spots that hold special meaning to you both, whether it’s the place where you first met, a favorite café, or a beautiful spot in nature.
- Communicate Your Preferences: If there are specific shots or angles you love, share these with your photographer beforehand.
- Make Time for a Private Moment: If you’re doing a first look, be sure to take a few minutes to just breathe and enjoy being with your partner.
Conclusion: Creating Memories That Last
Your bridal/first-look photo session is WAY more than just a photoshoot — it’s an opportunity to create lasting memories of the MOST important day of your life! I promise, these photos will become treasures for years to come.
By understanding what to expect and preparing ahead, you’ll be able to enjoy EVERY moment of your photo session and allow ME to create stunning images that perfectly capture your love story!
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